Well after some quick searching, I found this device:
NorthSeas Guard E/N
"The NorthSeas Guard E/N (pronounced guardian) automatically captures, and sends a copy of each e-mail message, sent or received by an e-mail server to a network storage system. As a result, the designated storage system becomes a central e-mail repository referred to as the Captured Messages Store/Archive™ from which users can easily access and retrieve any of their messages. The Guard E/N appliance installs easily within minutes and works with any email application including Microsoft Exchange, IBM/Lotus Notes, Novell GroupWise, Unix Mail, and others."
With the whole carbon copy deal I mentioned before, I found this little bit of infomation as well:
"Automatic CC Several users have asked if OE can be configured to automatically cc: all outgoing mail to the same user specified address. Unfortunately, the short answer is that OE does not support this functionality at this time. Despite this reality, there is an interim work around for new outgoing messages (unfortunately, it does not work for Reply messages). All you need to do is to create a template for your outgoing mail messages that includes your address in the BCC field. Simply create a new mail message with your email address in the CC or BCC field. Now, choose File | Save As, and save it to a location from where you can easily launch it (like the Desktop). Now, whenever you need to make a new email with this, just launch the mail message "template" and click Send when you're done."
Wish I could be a little more help right now, but my niece is about to wake up, so I got to get back to being an Uncle for the time being.