Wow, seems like i've started a controversy o_O
Anyways, my impression of the whole thing was that as long as i'm in control of things, then it should be okay? I mean.. okay, so i'm letting my friend use a subdomain name. But i know what he's putting on it, because he told me what he wanted to put even before i made the subdomain, the things on his site have, in some way, to do with me anyways, and ultimately i still have the power to go in and delete things.
My original question was really just asking for a nicer way to 'exert' my power over him basically shutup