HERE is the form. I've just been trying to get it to work, so it's not personalized yet.
and here is a copy of the variables at the top of my config.php file
$allowed_email_recipients_array = array('www.lightshines.net');
$referers = array('66.11.164.208','www.lightshines.net');
/*66.11.164.208 is IP for TCH... helps new sites work
Should not be required after propogation
But doesn't hurt*/
$recipient = "lightshines@lightshines.net";
thanks,
sherie