Alright! I'm not sure if this is the right place to ask these questions - and if it isn't, please feel free to kick me to somewhere that is the correct place... 
  
First off, disclaimer - I am a complete computer idiot (okay, I do know CSS & HTML, and I can operate my DreamWeaver and PS) who woke up one day and said to herself, 'hey, you've been mod-ing websites for so long, why not START one...', so forgive me if some of my questions are plain obvious to the ones who are technically blessed. 
  
1. I CAN'T CONNECT TO MY FTP ACCT! 
I've taken into consideration that my URL has not fully propaganded (I do believe I signed up just less than 24 hours ago), and so, I used that string of numbers (IP?) that the Welcome Email provided... However, my lovely FTP client, who connects perfectly well to a site I co-run, displays a time-out message when I try to connect to that IP(?) TCH provided in the email. 
  
2. PLEASE explain to me about this domain parking business... 
I currently own [domain].com and [domain].org. Don't ask me why I have both - people are overgenerous with their URL vouchers. I registered with TCH with [domain].com and now, I want to to make [domain].org point to [domain].com 
  
 
  
Can someone kindly explain what the emphasised words mean? And, umm, it would be sweet if that kind soul could include instructions about how to go about doing it...  
  
ETA: I tried to put in a domain but got this... 
 However, before I signed up, I heard this... 
  
??? 
  
  
3. So, I've coded out my site - the index page, at least - into a html file already. How do I get it up onto the net? Where do I upload the file too? 
  
  
That's about all... for now... Thanks